The passengers on the bus watched sympathetically as the
attractive young woman with the white cane made her way carefully up the steps.
She paid the driver and, using her hands to feel the location of the seats,
walked down the aisle and found the seat he had told her was empty. Then she
settled in, placed her briefcase on her lap and rested her cane against her
leg.
It had been a year since Safiya, thirty-four, became blind. Due to
a medical misdiagnosis she had been rendered sightless, and she was suddenly
thrown into a world of darkness, anger, frustration and self-pity. Once a
fiercely independent woman, Safiya now felt condemned by this terrible twist of
fate to become a powerless, helpless burden on everyone around her.
"How could this have happened to me?" she would plead,
her heart knotted with anger. But no matter how much she cried or ranted, she
knew the painful truth her sight was never going to return. A cloud of
depression hung over Safiya's once optimistic spirit. Just getting through each
day was an exercise in frustration and exhaustion. And all she had to cling to
was her husband Meraj.
Meraj was an Air Force officer and he loved Safiya with all of his
heart. When she first lost her sight, he watched her sink into despair and was
determined to help his wife gain the strength and confidence she needed to
become independent again. Meraj's military background had trained him well to
deal with sensitive situations, and yet he knew this was the most difficult
battle he would ever face.
Finally, Safiya felt ready to return to her job, but how would she
get there? She used to take the bus, but was now too frightened to get around
the city by herself. Meraj volunteered to drive her to work each day, even
though they worked at opposite ends of the city.
At first, this comforted Safiya and fulfilled Meraj's need to
protect his sightless wife who was so insecure about performing the slightest
task. Soon, however, Meraj realized that this arrangement was not working - it
was hectic, and costly. Safiya is going to have to start taking the bus again,
he admitted to himself. But just the thought of mentioning it to her made him
cringe. She was still so fragile, so angry. How would she react?
Just as Meraj predicted, Safiya was horrified at the idea of
taking the bus again. "I am blind!" she responded bitterly. "How
am I supposed to know where I am going? I feel like you are abandoning
me."
Meraj's heart broke to hear these words, but he knew what had to
be done. Meraj promised Safiya that each morning and evening he would ride the
bus with her, for as long as it took, until she got the hang of it. And that is
exactly what happened. For two solid weeks, Meraj, military uniform and all,
accompanied Safiya to and from work each day. Meraj taught her how to rely on
her other senses, specifically her hearing, to determine where she was and how
to adapt to her new environment.
Meraj helped her befriend the bus drivers who could watch out for
her and save her a seat. Meraj made her laugh, even on those not-so-good days
when she would trip exiting the bus or drop her briefcase. Each morning they
made the journey together and Meraj would take a cab back to his office.
Although this routine was even more costly and exhausting than the previous
one, Meraj knew it was only a matter of time before Safiya would be able to
ride the bus on her own. Meraj believed in her, in the Safiya he used to know
before she would lost her sight, who was not afraid of any challenge and who
would never, ever quit.
Finally, Safiya decided that she was ready to try the trip on her
own. Monday morning arrived, and before she left, she threw her arms around
Meraj, her temporary bus riding companion, her husband, and her best friend.
Her eyes filled with tears of gratitude for his loyalty, his patience, his
love. Safiya said good-bye, and for the first time, they went their separate
ways.
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday... Each day on her own went
perfectly and Safiya had never felt better. Safiya was doing it! She was going
to work all by herself!
On Friday morning, Safiya took the bus to work as usual. As she
was paying for her fare to exit the bus, the driver said, "Sister, I sure
envy you."
Safiya was not sure if the driver was speaking to her or not.
After all, who on earth would ever envy a blind woman who had struggled just to
find the courage to live for the past year? Curious, she asked the driver,
"Why do you say that you envy me?"
The driver responded, "It must feel so good to be taken care
of and protected like you are."
Safiya had no idea what the driver was talking about, and asked
again, "What do you mean?"
The driver answered, "You know, every morning for the past week,
a fine looking gentleman in a military uniform has been standing across the
corner watching you when you get off the bus. He makes sure you cross the
street safely and he watches you until you enter your office building. Then he
blows you a kiss, gives you a little salute and walks away. You are one lucky
woman."
Tears of happiness poured down Safiya's cheeks. For although she
could not physically see him, she had always felt Meraj's presence. Safiya was
lucky, so lucky, for he had given her a gift more powerful than sight, a gift
she did not need to see to believe - Gift of Love that can bring light where
there had been darkness ...
Surely Noble Qur'an says: "The Believers, men and women, are
protectors one of another: they enjoin what is just, and forbid what is evil:
they observe regular prayers, practice regular charity, and obey Allah and His
Messenger. On them will Allah pour His mercy: for Allah is Exalted in power,
Wise." Tawba (9:71) Love (Hubb) in Islam
Inspirational
Stories for Teenagers: Most Beautiful Heart (Love and Islam, Love (Hubb) in
Islam)
One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town
proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley.
A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was
perfect.
There was not a mark or a flaw in it.
Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they
had ever seen.
The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his
beautiful heart.
Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said,
"Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine."
The crowd and the young man looked at the old man's heart. It was
beating strongly ... but full of scars. It had places where pieces had been
removed and other pieces put in ... but they didn't fit quite right and there
were several jagged edges.
In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces
were missing.
The people starred ... how could he say his heart is more
beautiful, they thought?
The young man looked at the old man's heart and saw its state and
laughed. "You must be joking," he said. "Compare your heart with
mine ... mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears."
"Yes," said the old man, "Yours is perfect looking
... but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person
to whom I have given my love ..... I tear out a piece of my heart and give it
to them ... and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits into the
empty place in my heart ... but because the pieces aren't exact, I have some
rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared.
Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away ... and the other
person hasn't returned a piece of his heart to me. These are the empty gouges
... giving love is taking a chance. Although these gouges are painful, they
stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too ... and I hope
someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see
what true beauty is?"
The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks.
He walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful
heart, and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old man with trembling
hands.
The old man took his offering, placed it in his heart and then
took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young
man's heart.
It fit .... but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges.
The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful
than ever, since love from the old man's heart flowed into his.
They embraced and walked away side by side.
Inspirational
Stories for Teenagers: Blind Girl (Love Story, Love and Islam, Love (Hubb) in
Islam)
There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she's blind.
She hated everyone, except her loving fiance. He is always there for her. Blind
girl said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her fiance.
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to the blind girl and then
she can see everything, including her fiance.
Her fiance asked her, "now that you can see the world, will
you marry me?" The girl was shocked when she saw that her fiance is blind
too, and refused to marry him.
Her fiance walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to girl
saying. "Just take care of my eyes dear."
Moral: This is how human brain changes when the status changed.
Only few remember what life was before, and who's always been there even in the
most painful situations.
Never take someone for granted, Hold every person close to your
Heart because you might wake up one day and realize that you have lost a
diamond while you were too busy collecting stones. Remember this always in
life!
"You learn to love, not by finding a perfect person, but by
learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."
Inspirational
Stories for Teenagers: Wealth, Love and Success (Love Story, Love (Hubb) in
Islam)
A woman came out of her house and saw three old men with long
white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said
"I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have
something to eat."
"Is the man of the house home?", they asked.
"No", she replied. "He's out."
"Then we cannot come in", they replied.
In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had
happened.
"Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"
The woman went out and invited the men in.
"We do not go into a House together," they replied.
"Why is that?" she asked.
One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he
said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He
is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss
with your husband which one of us you want in your home?"
The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband
was overjoyed. "How nice!", he said. "Since that is the case,
let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!"
His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite
Success?"
Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the
house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to
invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"
"Let us heed our daughter-in-law's advice," said the
husband to his wife.
"Go out and invite Love to be our guest."
The woman went out and asked the three old men, "Which one of
you is Love? Please come in and be our guest."
Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other two
old men also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and
Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"
The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or
Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love,
wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth
and Success!!!"
Inspirational
Sayings for Teenagers (Heart Hardening):
Prophet of Islam, Muhammad (peace be upon him) has said: "Do
not speak excessively without the remembrance of Allah (SWT), since verily
excessive speaking without the remembrance of Allah (SWT) makes the heart
hard."
Allah revealed to Prophet Musa / Moses (peace be upon him):
"(O Musa!) Do not have long desires or hopes for the world since this will
make your heart hard and the one whose heart is hard far away from Me!"
Imam Ali (peace be upon him) said: "The eyes do not dry
(tears are not stopped) except due to the heart becoming hard. And the heart
does not become hard except due to increase in sins."
Imam Ali (peace be upon him) said: "Looking at a stingy
person makes the heart hard."
Imam Ali (peace be upon him) said: "An abundance of wealth
corrupts the religion and hardens the heart."
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