Take, for example, the story of one 10-year-old boy who decided
The boy began lessons with an old Japanese Judo master. The boy
was doing well, so he couldn't understand why, after three months of training
the master had taught him only one move.
"Sensei," the boy finally said, "Shouldn't I be
learning more moves?"
"This is the only move you know, but this is the only move
you'll ever need to know," the Sensei replied.
Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy
kept training.
Several months later, the sensei took the boy to his first
tournament. Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The
third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent
became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the
match.
Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals.
This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more
experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that
the boy might get hurt, the referee called a time-out. He was about to stop the
match when the Sensei intervened.
"No," the Sensei insisted, "Let him continue."
Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a critical
mistake: He dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The
boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion.
On the way home, the boy and Sensei reviewed every move in each
and every match. Then the boy summoned the courage to ask what was really on
his mind.
"Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one
move?"
"You won for two reasons," the Sensei answered.
"First, you've almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of
Judo. And second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to
grab your left arm."
The moral of this story: The boy's biggest weakness had become his
biggest strength.
A jobless man applied for the position of 'office boy' at a very
big firm.
The HR manager interviewed him, then a test: clean the floor.
"You are hired" he said, give me your email address, and I will send
you the application to fill, as well as when you will start. The man replied
"I don't have a computer, neither an email".
I am sorry, said the HR manager, if you don't have an email that
means you do not exist. And who doesn't exist, cannot have the job. The man
left with no hope at all. He didn't know what to do, with only $10 US in his
pocket.
He then decided to go to the supermarket and buy a 10 KG Tomato
crate. He then sold the Tomatoes in a door to door round. In less than two
hours, he succeeded to double his capital. He repeated the operation 3 times,
and returned home with $60 US. The man realized that he can survive by this
way, and started to go everyday earlier, and return late. Thus, his money doubles
or triples every day. Shortly later, he bought a cart, then a truck, and then
he had his own fleet of delivery vehicles.
5 years later, the man is one of the biggest food retailers in the
US. He started to plan his family's future, and decided to have a life
insurance.
He called an insurance broker, and chooses a protection plan. When
the conversation was concluded, the broker asked him his email. The man
replied: 'I don't have an email'. The broker replied curiously, you don't have
an email, and yet have succeeded to build an empire. Do you imagine what you
could have been if you had an email?
The man thought for a while, and replied: an office boy!
The
moral of this story:
1: Internet is not the solution to your life.
2: If you don't have internet and you work hard you can be a
millionaire.
3: This man's biggest weakness had become his biggest strength.
Turning
a flaw into a feature: The Cracked Pot, an Uplifting Story
Once upon a time there was a water-bearer in India who had two
large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck.
One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and
always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the
stream to the master's house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.
For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer
delivering only one and a half pot full of water in his master's house.
Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments,
perfect to the end for which it was made. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed
of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half
of what it had been made to do.
After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it
spoke to the water-bearer one day by the stream. "I am ashamed of myself,
and I want to apologize to you." "Why?" asked the bearer.
"What are you ashamed of ?"
"I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only
half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way
back to your master's house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this
work and you don't get full value from your efforts, " the pot said. The
water-bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said,
"As we return to the master's house, I want you to notice the beautiful
flowers along the path."
Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice
of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this
cheered it some.
But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had
leaked out half its load, and so again it apologized to the bearer for its
failure.
The bearer said to the pot, "Did you notice that there were
flowers only on your side of your path, but not on the other pot's side?
That's because have always known about your flaw, and I took
advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day
while we walk back from the stream, you've watered them. For two years I have
been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master's table.
Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace
his house."
The moral of this story: Each of us has our own unique flaw. But
it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very
interesting and warding. You've just got to take each person for what they are
and look for the good in them.
Uplifting
Stories: Importance of understanding each other: I want to buy a Puppy
A farmer had some puppies, he needed to sell. He painted a sign
advertising the pups and set about nailing it to a post on the edge of his
yard. As he was driving the last nail into the post, he felt a tug on his
overalls. He looked down into the eyes of a little boy.
"Uncle," he said, "I want to buy one of your
puppies."
"Well," said the farmer, as he rubbed the sweat off the
back of his neck, "these puppies come from fine parents and cost a good
deal of money."
The boy dropped his head for a moment. Then reaching deep into his
pocket, he pulled out a handful of change and held it up to the farmer.
"I've got thirty-nine cents. Is that enough to take a look?"
"Sure," said the farmer.
And with that he let out a whistle, "Here, Dolly!" he
called. Out from the doghouse and down the ramp ran Dolly followed by four
little balls of fur. The little boy pressed his face against the chain link
fence. His eyes danced with delight. As the dogs made their way to the fence,
the little boy noticed something else stirring inside the doghouse.
Slowly another little ball appeared; this one noticeably smaller.
Down the ramp it slid. Then in a somewhat awkward manner the little pup began
hobbling toward the others, doing its best to catch up.
"I want that one," the little boy said, pointing to the
runt.
The farmer knelt down at the boy's side and said, "Son, you
don't want that puppy. He will never be able to run and play with you like
these other dogs would."
With that the little boy stepped back from the fence, reached
down, and began rolling up one leg of his trousers.
In doing so he revealed a steel brace running down both sides of
his leg attaching itself to a specially made shoe. Looking back up at the
farmer, he said, "You see sir, I don't run too well myself, and he will
need someone who understands."
The world is full of people who need someone who understands.
The
moral of this story: Everyone of us have our own
shortage and weaknesses. But if we are willing to, we can make advantage of our
own shortage and weaknesses instead of opposing them. In the eyes of the wise,
nothing is wasted. Do not be blocked by your disadvantages. Know your
weaknesses and you too can be the water for the better life of all. Know, that
in our weaknesses, we find our strengths
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