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bvix, Zzwg m„wói †kªó, Aebxi bxi, †hb †Mvjv‡c MwVZ wfZi I evwni| KZ hZœ K‡i Ac~e© my›`i iæ‡c Abycg ¸bvejx‡Z Avjøvn bvix‡K mw„ó K‡i‡Qb cyiæ‡li m½x iy‡c| †bKKvi bvix, cwievi †`k RvwZ Z_v mgMÖ we‡k¦i Rb¨B Ag~j¨ m¤ú` |

GKRb bvix, †m Zvi mg¯Í `vq `vqxZ¡ m¤ú‡K© _vK‡e m‡PZb, bvgv‡h GKwbô, Avjøvni cÖwZ fw³‡Z AebZ, wb‡Ri cweÎZv i¶v‡_© mZK,© Kv‡R-K‡g©, Bmjvgx wbqg bxwZ†Z wek¦vmx, ˆah©kxjv, b¨qwbô, Cgvb`vi, AbyMZ, mZ¨ev`x, webxZv, `vbkxjv, †ivhv cvjbKvixbx †hŠbv‡½i †ndvRZKvixbx Avjøvni AwaK whwKi Kvixbx Zv‡KB ejv hvq †bKKvi bvix| Avj †KviAvb I nv`x‡mi eb©bv Abyhvqx c„w_exi me©hy‡Mi me©Kv‡ji m‡e©vrK…ó †bKKvi bvixiv n‡jb, nhiZ gwiqg (Avt), nhiZ AvwQqv (Avt), nhiZ nv‡Riv (ivt), nhiZ iwngv (ivt), nvdmv web‡Z Dgi Bebyj LvËve (ivt), E¤§yj †gvwgwbb nhiZ Av‡qkv wmÏxKv (ivt), nhiZ hqbe web‡Z Rvnvk (ivt), nhiZ dvwZgv †hvniv (ivt) cÖgyL|

Kb¨v-Rvqv-Rbbx bvbv bv‡g f~wlZ I eûwea `vwq‡Z¡ wb‡qvwRZ GK bvix| Kb¨v, †evb, ¯¿x wKsev gv, bvixi †Kvb `vqx‡Z¡i †P‡qB †Kvb `vqxZ¡ Kg bq| cÖwZwU ‡¶‡ÎB bvix hLb Zvi ¯^ ¯^ KvR I `vqxZ¡ Cgv‡bi mv‡_ m~Pviæ iæ‡c cvjb Ki‡Z cvi‡e, ZLbB †m bvix n‡q DV‡e GKRb †bKKvi bvix, Av`k© I AbyKibxq e¨w³Z¦|

Avj †KviAvb I nv`x‡m †bKKvi bvix‡`i Acwimxg gh©v`v I m¤§vbRbK cyi¯‹v‡ii K_v †NvwlZ n‡q‡Q | ivm~‡j Kixg (mvt) Gikv` K‡ib,   Ò†Kvb gywgb e¨w³i Rb¨ ci‡nhKvi bvixi ci †bKKvi ¯¿x A‡c¶v DËg †Kvb m¤ú` bvB | †bK ¯¿xi j¶b GB, (1) hLb Zv‡K †Kvb wb‡`©k †`qv nq, Zv †m cvjb K‡i | (2) ¯^vgx hLb Zvi gy‡Li w`‡K ZvKvq, ZLb †m ¯^vgx‡K Avb›` `vb K‡i| (3) hw` Zv‡K †Kvb kc_ †`qv nq, Z‡e †m Zv c~ib K‡i| (4) ¯^vgx hw` KLbI we‡`‡k P‡j hvq, Z‡e ¯^vgxi Abycw¯’wZ‡Z †m wb‡Ri mZxZ¡ I ¯^vgxi ab-m¤ú` i¶v K‡iÓ|--- (Be‡b gvRv)

avwg©Kv bvix‡`i dhxjZ m¤ú‡K© nhiZ Be‡b Dgi (ivt) n‡Z ewb©Z n‡q‡Q, bex Kixg (mvt) Gikv` K‡ib, G wek¦gÛ‡j cy‡ivUvB †fvM m¤fvi I Avb›` Djøvv‡mi mvgMÖx | Z¤§‡a¨ m‡e©vËg mvgMÖx nj †bK I mrKg©civqb bvix |--- ( gymwjg )

weev‡ni Rb¨ cvÎx cQ‡›`i †¶‡ÎI †bKKvi I Øxb`vi bvix‡`i AMÖvwaKvi †`qv n‡q‡Q | G cÖm‡½ nv`x‡m cvB,  Òbex Kixg (mvt) Gikv` K‡ib, ¯¿x ‡jv‡Ki g‡a¨ PviwU wRwb‡mi AbymÜvb Kiv nq | m¤ú`, eskgh©v`v, †mŠ›`h© I ag©-fxiæZv| †n DwÏó e¨w³ Zzwg †KejgvÎ ag©-fxiæ bvix‡K weevn Ki | †Zvgvi nvZ aywj a~mwiZ †nvKÓ|---(†evLvix, g~mwjg)

‡bKKvi bvix cwievi †`k RvwZ Z_v mgMÖ we‡k¦i Rb¨B DcKvix | avg©xKv ¯¿x Zvi ¯^vgx †K me©`v mr civg‡k©i gva¨‡g mwVK c_ evZ‡j w`‡q mKj wec` †_‡K `~‡i iv‡Lb|

gnvbex (mvt) †bKKvi bvix‡K Avjøvni Aby`vb e‡j AwfwnZ K‡i‡Qb| nhiZ Avbvm (ivt) n‡Z ewb©Z GKwU nv`x‡m G m¤ú‡K© ejv n‡q‡Q †h, gnvbex (mvt) Gikv` K‡ib, ÒAvjøvn hv‡K  †bKKvi, Øxb`vi ¯¿x `vb K‡i‡Qb Zv‡K AwaK Øxb ×viv mvnvh¨ K‡i†Qb| GLb Zvi KZ©e¨ n‡jv †m ÕZvK¡IqvÕ I †Lv`vfxiæZv ×viv evKx Øxb AR©b Ki‡e|Ó---(Kvbhyj D¤§vj 16:273)

‡bKKvi ¯¿x me©`vB ¯^vgxi ag©-K‡g© mvnvh¨ Kvwibx | avg©xKv ¯¿x ¯^vgx I Zvi cwiev‡ii Rb¨ Avkxe©v` ¯^iæc| Aci w`‡K e`Kvi ¯¿x ¯^vgx-mšÍvb I Zvi cwiev‡ii Rb¨ Awfkvc ¯^iæc| nhiZ Ave`yi ingvb Be‡b AvewR (ivt) n‡Z e©wb©Z n‡q‡Q, bex Kixg (mvt) Gikv` K‡i‡Qb,  Ò†bKKvi gwnjv †bKKvi cyiæ‡li weevn eÜb Ggb, †hgb ev`kvni gv_vq g~j¨evb cv_i LwPZ ZvRgyKzU | Avi †bKKvi †jv‡Ki weevn e܇b e`Kvi gwnjv Ggb †hgb e„× †jv‡Ki gv_vq fvix †evSv|Ó---(`yiiæj gvbm~i-2:152)

c~b¨evb I m”PwiÎeZx bvixi ¯^iƒc m¤ú‡K© nhiZ Dgi (ivt) e‡j‡Qb,  Òbvix RvwZ wZb cÖKvi| (1) H bvix †h m”PwiÎv, eva¨MZ, cÖdzjøvgbv, †Kvgj ü`q, AwaK gynveŸZKvixbx, AwaK mšÍvb cÖme Kvixbx, me©ve¯nvq ¯^xq ¯^vgx I cwiev‡ii mK‡ji cÖwZ `qvgqx | wKšÍy Ggb gwnjv Kg cvIqv hvq (2) wØZxq H bvix, †h cv‡Îi g‡Zv, hv‡Z wRwbl ivLv nq  Ges †ei Kiv nq | A_©vr AwaK mšÍvb Rb¥ †`qvi Dchy³ bq | (3) H gwnjv †h †avKvevR, `vMvevR| Avjøvn hv‡K Pvb, Zvi Eci Ggb `yivPvi gwnjv Pvwc‡q †`b | Avi hv‡K Pvb, Zvi Dci †_‡K nwU‡q †`bÓ |---(Kvbhyj D¤§vj 16:263)

Øxb`vi bvixi dhxjZ Acwimxg | Zveivbx kix‡d cvB nhiZ Avey Dgvgv (ivt) n‡Z ewb©Z gnvbex (mvt) Gikv` K‡i‡Qb, Ò†n bvix RvwZ! †Zvgv‡`i g‡a¨ hviv †bKKvi, Zviv †bKKvi cyiæl‡`i Av‡M Rvbœv‡Z cÖ‡ek Ki‡e| Zv‡`i‡K †Mvmj w`‡q Lykey gvwL‡q wbR wbR ¯^vgxi wbKU Ac©Y Kiv n‡e | ZLb Zviv jvj I njy` e‡b©i evn‡bi Dci Dcweó _vK‡e | Zv‡`i mv‡_ Qwo‡q _vKv gy³vi gZ KwP KwP wkïiv cwi‡ewóZ _vK‡eÓ |---(Kvbhyj D¤§vj 16:412)

Av`k© bvix G c„w_exi AvKh©bxq wbqvgZ mg~‡ni Ab¨Zg| G cÖm‡½ nhiZ Avbvm (ivt) e‡jb, bex Kixg (mvt) Gikv` K‡ib, ÒG c„w_exi (mvgMÖx) †_‡K Avgvi wcÖq evbv‡bv n‡q‡Q bvix I myMwÜ Ges bvgv‡hi g‡a¨ Avgvi †Pv‡Li kxZjZv ivLv n‡q‡Q|Ó ---( bvmvqx kixd)

‡bKKvi bvix†`i †Kqvg‡Zi gv‡V Avjøvn ZvÕqvjv m¤§vwbZ Ki‡eb | wKqvg‡Zi w`b ‡Nvi AÜKv‡i cyjwmivZ cvi nevi mgq c~b¨eZx bvixivI Avjøvni A‡kl ‡bqvg‡Zi b~‡ii AwaKvix n‡eb | G cÖm‡½ Avj KziAv‡b gnvb Avjøvn ZvÕAvjv Gikv` K‡ib,

 Ò¯^ibxq †mw`b ‡hw`b Avcwb †`L‡eb, Cgvb`vi cyiæl I bvix‡`i‡K-†h Zv‡`i m¤§y‡L I Wvb cv‡k©¦ Zv‡`i b~i QyUv-QywU Ki‡e| (Zv‡`i‡K) ejv n‡e, AvR †Zvgv‡`i Rb¨ AbšÍ Amxg Avb›`gq  Rvbœv‡Zi my-msev`, hvi Zj‡`‡k bni cÖevwnZ | Zv‡Z Zviv wPiKvj _vK‡e | GUvB gnvmvdj¨ |Ó---(m~iv nv`x`, AvqvZ bs 12)

cweÎ I †bK igbxiv GB c„w_ex‡Z evwn¨Kfv‡e nvRv‡iv mgm¨vq R©R©wiZ Ae¯’vq _vK‡jI gvbwmK fv‡e Zviv Pig I cig cÖkvwšÍ‡Z Rxeb AwZevwnZ Ki‡Z cv‡i| Avi ciKv‡j †bK bvix‡`i Rb¨ i‡q‡Q Abvw`Kv‡ji AdzišÍ myL kvwšÍ I cÖkvwšÍ| G cÖm‡½ Avj&-†KviAv‡b gnvb Avjøvn ZvÕAvjv ‡Nvlbv w`‡q‡Qb –Ò†h e¨w³ †bK Avgj Ki‡e, PvB cyiæl ‡nvK ev bvix, hw` Cgvb`vi nq, Zv‡K Avwg `ywbqv‡Z cÖkvwšÍi wR‡›`Mx `vb Kie Ges ciKv‡j Zv‡`i Avg‡ji DËg cÖwZ`v‡b Zv‡`i‡K  cyi¯‹„Z KieÓ |---(m~iv bvnj, AvqvZ bs 97)

mrKg©kxjv I Cgvb`vi bvix‡`i cÖm‡½ cweÎ KziAv‡bi m~iv wbmv I m~iv dvZn& G Avjøvn Zvqvjv Gikv` K‡ib, Ò†h †KD cyiæl wKsev bvix †Kvb mrKg© K‡i Ges (Avjøvn&†Z) wek¦vmx nq, Zviv Rvbœv‡Z cÖ‡ek Ki‡e Ges Zv‡`i cÖvc¨ wZj cwigvbI bó Kiv n‡e bvÓ |---(m~iv wbmv, AvqvZ bs 125)

 ÒwZwb (Avjøvn) Cgvb`vi cyiæl I Cgvb`vi bvix‡`i‡K Rvbœv‡Z cÖ‡ek Kivb, hvi Zj‡`‡k b`x cÖevwnZ, ‡m_vq Zviv wPiKvj _vK‡e Ges Avjøvn Zv‡`i cvc ‡gvPb Ki‡eb | GUvB Avjøvni Kv‡Q Zv‡`i cÖvc¨ gnvmvdj¨|Ó---(m~iv Avj dvZn&, AvqvZ bs 5)

mrKg©kxj, †bKKvi I Øxb`vi bvix†`i dhxjZ m¤ú‡K© nhiZ Dgi (ivt) n‡Z ewY©Z GK nv`x‡m cvB,  Ò†bK I mrKg© civqb gwnjv GK nvRvi †e Avgj cyiæl n‡Z EËgÓ|---(Avbxmyj Iqv‡qhxb)

Aci GK nv`x‡m bex Kixg (mvt) e‡j‡Qb, Òwbðq c„w_exi †bKeLZ bvixMY Rvbœv‡Zi gv‡S mIi nvRvi AvbZ bqbv iƒcmx ûi‡`i †P‡q I DËg n‡e|Ó---(AvZ ZvhwKiv: 556)

Be‡b gvmD` (ivt) n‡Z G cÖm‡½ ewb©Z GK nv`xm n‡Z cvB,    Ògnvbex (mvt) Gikv` K‡ib Rvbœv‡Z cª‡e‡ki mgq me‡P‡q AMÖMvgx H mg¯Í gwnjvMb n‡eb, hviv Øx‡bi e¨vcv‡i AMÖMvgxbxÓ|---(gymbv‡` Avng` 2:66)

mZx bvix me©ve¯’vq Aek¨B Zvi mZxZ¡ i¶v K‡i Pj‡e | KviY GKRb bvixi Rb¨ mZx‡Z¡i †P‡q eo m¤ú` Avi †bB| Avi nvRvi cÖwZK~jZv  m‡Z¡I QIqv‡ei Avkvq †h bvix Zvi mZxZ¡ i¶v K‡i Pj‡e, †Kqvg‡Zi gv‡V †m knx`‡`i AšÍf~³ n‡e |

G cÖm‡½ Be‡b gvmD` (ivt) n‡Z ewb©Z GK nv`x‡m cvB, bex Kixg (mvt) e‡j‡Qb, Òwbðq Avjøvn ZvÕAvjv bvix‡`i Dci mZxZ¡ msi¶Y‡eva dih K‡i‡Qb, †hgb cyiæl‡`i Dci †Rnv` dih K‡i‡Qb | AZ:ci Z‡`i g‡a¨ †h Cgvb I QvIqv‡ei Avkvq (mZxZ¡ i¶v KiZ:) ˆah©¨ aviY Ki‡e, †m knx`‡`i QvIqve cv‡e|Ó---(Kvbhyj D¤§vj, 16:407)

ÒBmjv‡g †bKKvi, Cgvb`vi I cweÎ bvix†`i‡K gnvb Avjøvn cyiæ‡li cvkvcvwk mKj cÖKvi cÖvc¨ nK mg~n mywbwðZ K‡i‡Qb Ges Dchy³ mvwi‡Z h_v_© m¤§vb I gh©v`vi Avm‡b ewm‡q‡Qb | G cÖm‡½ Avj †KviAv‡b ejv n‡q‡Q wbðq gymjgvb cyiæl I gymjgvb bvix, Cgvb`vi cyiæl I Cgvb`vi bvix, AbyMZ  cyiæl I AbyMZv bvix, mZ¨e`x cyiæl I mZ¨ev`x bvix, ‰ah©kxjv cyiæl I ‰ah©kxjv bvix, webxZ cyiæl I webxZv bvix, `vbkxj cyiæl I `vbkxj bvix,  †ivhv cvjb Kvix cyiæl I ‡ivhv cjb Kvix bvix, †hŠbv½ wndvRZKvix cyiæl I †hŠbv½ wndvRZKvixbx bvix, Avjøvni AwaK whwKi Kvix Zv‡`i Rb¨ cÖ¯ÍZ †i‡L‡Qb gnvb Avjøvni ¶gv I gnv cyi¯‹vi |Ó---(Avj& Avnhve, AvqvZ bs:35)

Bmjvg cweÎ bvix†`i hZUzKz gh©v`v I m¤§vb cÖ`vb K‡i†Qb  Ab¨ ‡Kvb ag© ev gZev` Zvi wKwÂZ I cÖ`vb Ki‡Z cv‡i wb | A‡bK ‡¶‡Î Bmjvg cyiæl†`i ‡P‡q I bvix†`i †ekx gh©v`v I AwaKZi m¤§vb w`‡q‡Qb| G cÖm‡½ GKwU nv`xm D‡jøL Kiv hvq, ÒR‰bK mvnvex ivm~jyjøvn (mvt) Gi Kv‡Q AviR Ki‡jb Bqv ivm~jyjøvn Avwg Kvi mv‡_ mev©waK mبenvi Kie ? ivm~jyjøvn (mvt) Dˇi ej‡jb, ‡Zvgvi gv‡qi mv‡_ | AZ:ci wR‡Ámv Ki‡jb Zvi ci Kvi m‡_? bex Kixg (mvt) ej‡jb ‡Zvgvi gv‡qi mv‡_ | cybivq mvnvex wR‡•Om K‡ib Zici Kvi mv‡_? wcÖq bex (mvt) GeviI DËi w`‡jb †Zvgvi gv‡qi mv‡_ | Gi ci 4_© evi cÖkœ Ki‡jb, Zvici Kvi mv‡_? ZLb wcÖq bex (mvt) DËi w`‡jb †Zvgvi wcZvi mv‡_ Ges Gi ci Ab¨vb¨ wbKU †_‡K wbKUZg AvZ¡x‡qi mv‡_|Ó---(wZiwgRx 2:11)

D³ nv`xm Aa¨q‡b ejv hvq †h bex Kixg (mvt) wcZvi Zzjbvq gv‡K wZb ¸b AwaK gh©v`vi AwaKvixbx e‡j †Nvlbv K‡i‡Qb | ivm~‡j AvKivg (mv:) Ab¨Î Gikv` K‡ib,  Ò‡bKKvi ¯¿x †h ¯¿x Cgv‡b mvnvh¨Kvix †m GK Rb gymjgv‡bi Rb¨ cig m¤ú`Ó|---( wZiwghx )

‡bK bvix‡`i gh©v`v m¤ú‡K© bex Kixg (mvt) Av‡iv Gikv` K‡ib, Ò†bKKvi ¯¿x, DrK…ó evm¯’vb Ges fvj hvbevnb jvf Kiv gvby‡li †mvfvM¨ Avi `yðwiÎv ¯¿x, g›` evm¯’vb I Lvivc hvbevnb jvf Kiv gvby‡li `yf©vM¨ |---(Avng&`)

avgxK©v, †bK I mr bvix‡`i ciKvjxb m¤§vb m¤ú‡K© D¤§yj gywgbxb nhiZ D‡¤§ mvjgv (ivt) †_‡K ewb©Z Aci nv`xm n‡Z cvB, wZwb e‡jb- Avwg ivm~jyjøvn (mvt) †K ejjvg, ÒBqv ivm~jyjøvn `ywbqvi (Øxb`vi) bvixMb wK AvbZbqbv n~i†`i †P‡q DËg? bexRx (mvt) Gikv` K‡ib `ywbqvi (Øxb`vi) bvixMb my›`ix n~i‡`i †P‡qI DËg | †hgb Kvc‡oi Dc‡ii wcV wfZ‡ii wcV †_‡K DËg|Ó---(gvRgvDh hvIqvwq` 10:277)

A_©vr BnKvj I ciKvj mKj mg‡qB †bKKvi bvix‡`i Rb¨ i‡q‡Q Avjøvni my`„wó, Lvm ingZ I †bqvg‡Z fiv AdzišÍ cyi®‹vi| ZvB Avmyb gv-†evb-Kb¨v I ¯¿x mKj bvixiv Avgiv mevB mZ¨-wg_¨vi Zdvr ey†S mwVK Av`‡k© c_ Pj‡Z wkwL| Bmjvgx b¨vq-bxwZ Av`k© AbyKiY I Abymib K‡i n‡q hvB - †KviAv‡b ewb©Z RvbœvZx igbx‡`i b¨vq †bKKvi ev›`v| `ªZ wb‡R‡K M‡o Zzwj AbyKiYxq Av`k© e¨w³Z¡ iæ‡c |

Avgiv bvixiv †Kej bvix n‡qB c_ Pj‡ev| †KviAvb nv`x‡m ewbZ© bvixi KZ©e¨ I `vq-`vqxZ¡ m¤ú‡K© m‡PZb n‡q DV‡ev | mg-AwaKvi bq Avgv‡`i cÖ‡qvRb Avj ‡KviAvb I nv`x‡m ewb©Z bvixi AwaKvi mg~‡ni h_v_© I mwVK ev¯Íevqb | Avgv‡`i mKj ¯^cœ mv_©K †nvK| c_-Pjv ‡nvK my›`i| Avjøvn Avgv‡`i mnvq †nvb | Avgxb|

‡jLK, mvsevw`K

cÖKvk: ˆ`wbK BbwKjve (Bmjvgx Rxeb)|

8,10 b‡f¤^i, 2009